"कोचिंग लम्हें" कैसे कोचिंग हमारे दैनिक जीवन में interwoven जा सकती है पर देखो, एक विचारशील, और कभी कभी फुल्का लेता है।
Coaches, Different Voices
जेनिस हंटर द्वारा
I love hearing silence used beautifully. The perfect pause that reaches out like ripples around a pebble in a dark pool. A poem where the unspoken word can say more than the most carefully crafted chapter. The silence between the notes that makes the music.
I went to a Scottish folk concert last night and sat in awe as the fiddles and pipes had a spirited conversation, the flute became a voice, the guitar wrapped itself around them all and the drumbeat turned into a heartbeat, a handclapping, footstomping hall full of joy and applause. As I sat listening to the band, watching the stage lights pick out their foot tapping, swaying forms in beams of changing coloured light on the dark stage, I remembered how I used to feel performing my own songs in the heat of the lights, savouring the silence between the fading of the last note and the start of the clapping.
I sang my way around Europe when I worked as a language teacher and translator; my voice was a vital part of who I was and what I did. After I had my kids, I moved back to Scotland and slowly, imperceptibly, I stopped writing, stopped singing, stopped playing the guitar and even stopped speaking the foreign languages I was fluent in. Silence gently settled around my soul like snow.
When I drifted into life coaching, on my journey out of what I now realise was low grade chronic depression, my passion to tell the whole world about it bubbled up, spilled over and finally gushed out in the torrent that helped me rediscover my voice.
Meeting other coaches in teleclasses and online was a bonus, like watching a film with a cast of wonderful, colourful characters. I have a colleague who coaches with the quiet, understated elegance of a Grace Kelly. One coaching buddy has the gentle strength and loving radiance of a spiritual leader – I've never met her but I just जानना she has a twinkle in her eye! Another has a voice like hot chocolate; her coaching sessions are like a studio where you turn yourself and your life into a work of art. And we all know someone who coaches like Bette Davies on a bad day, right? So who would आप हो सकता है?
I suspect I'd be Maria from The Sound of Music, twirling around on a mountain top, squashing innocent edelweiss underfoot, tripping my way clumsily through cobbled streets and coaching sessions oblivious to the fact that I was knocking people over with my swinging guitar case as I sang "I have confidence in sunshine…!"
It didn't surprise me when I failed Step 2 of the IAC exam. I gush, I interrupt inappropriately and I have this overwhelming urge to fix things, to make children's clothes out of curtains and get people singing about their favourite things.
Can I see myself ever getting certified? Well, Maria never did make it as a nun, although, thanks to her Mother Superior’s glorious rendition of "Climb Every Mountain", she got the handsome husband, the home full of happy kids and found her dream. Am I glad to have my voice back, a spirited, life loving, world worshipping voice? Oh yes. Oh, dear God, YES!!!
जेनिस हंटर स्कॉटलैंड में अपने परिवार के साथ रहता है और वर्तमान में आईएसी प्रमाणीकरण की दिशा में काम कर रहा है। वह विशेष रूप से उसके लेखन के माध्यम से अन्य कोचों समर्थन आनंद मिलता है और पर संपर्क किया जा सकता है email@example.com.