आईएसी आवाज, खंड 4, अंक 16 जुलाई 2007, वितरण: 11,477


एंजेला

संपादक से

यह
more we are grateful, the more we receive. Do you believe that?

In
any case, I'd like to practice some gratitude by saying thanks to our wonderful
शुद्धिकारक
कैथलीन रिचर्डसन. Hopefully
and probably you haven't noticed her work, because you won't know how many errors
she has caught and stopped! Kathleen is an important contributor to the editorial
team making life easier for me and reading more pleasant for you. We're also
looking for more people to play certain editorial roles. If you're interested,
please join the
स्वयंसेवक
टीम
.


हमारे
President Natalie Tucker-Miller also shares some thanks
and an inkling of
the scope and intensity of the work going on behind the scenes at the IAC.

एक
of our Certifiers, Barbra Sundquist, has contributed a very clear and useful
article about the सबसे आम गलतियों कोचिंग people make in trying
to get certified with the IAC. If you're on the certification track, or if you
just need a reminder about what masterful coaching is, this is a quick
and helpful read.

I'm
very pleased to be able to share an article from someone who is currently a
great source of inspiration to me. Anita Moorjani is a life coach who came extremely
close to death and who not only gained incredible insight into life, but also
explains her experiences in a very clear and accessible way. She has written
a special article for us about how her experiences have changed her coaching.
Click here to read about "Turning Life Around at the
Last Possible Moment
", केवल सदस्यों के लिए।

तथा
finally, our जुलाई के लिए लम्हें कोचिंग मौसम के लिए जवाब है.

I
hope you're enjoying the summer weather or winter weather, wherever you are
and whatever the world is bringing us.

चीयर्स,

एंजेला Spaxman
संपादक, आईएसी आवाज
ईमेल:
voice@certifiedcoach.org

वेब: www.spaxman.com.hk 






नताली

जवाब
राष्ट्रपति से


नेटली द्वारा
टकर मिलर


president@certifiedcoach.org

This month, let's take a
moment (or two) to applaud the many people who contribute their time and talent
to the care and feeding of the IAC. 

Note: Too numerous to detail in one announcement,
so please visit the "आईएसी के मित्र"
page for a comprehensive list.

We continue to grow with
paid members and new certifications, and it's one of my personal thrills to
connect with the many of you who offer support, input and a continued commitment
to coaching. Since this is a membership organization, run on the fuel of volunteers,
it's important to me that these individuals are acknowledged and honored for
their beneficence!

To begin, a huge round of
applause for Angela Spaxman and her wonderful team of editorial assistants. 
Angela, in addition to being a member of the
शासक मंडल,
has added wonderful flavor to the
आवाज़, the IAC's main means
of connecting and communicating with members and subscribers.  Her powerful,
clear and confident presence is more of an asset to the IAC than I am sure she
realizes. We can count ourselves quite fortunate to have her on the team, and
from the e-mail we receive on her behalf, I know the membership appreciates
her as well.  And although all board members have tasks outside their advisory
capacity, Angela willingly accepted this position which is above and beyond
the board commitment or expectation.

Some of the other committees
in which the
शासक मंडल
are/will be involved include communications, public relations, strategic planning,
event planning, operations, outreach, international outreach, volunteer communications,
promotion and member benefits.  Big stuff.

Obviously, we are all very
excited as more of the initiatives take shape, increasing the viability and
the visibility of the IAC.  As Sebastian, from Disney's नन्हीं जलपरी,
declared, "She's got legs, mon!"  If you're interested in being part of this
momentum, consider joining the
स्वयंसेवक
टीम
.

On a final note, let's send
love and appreciation to the
प्रमाणन बोर्ड
These masterful coaches continue to give of themselves on behalf of the coaching
profession and the IAC. I can guarantee that even those of us involved in
the inner workings do not have a full understanding of how much they give. 
They have donated hours upon hours to the betterment of the IAC, coach certification
and the language of masterful coaching.  Clearly the pioineers of the IAC certification
process, they work to uphold the high standards that have become the IAC's trademark. 

जैसे मैंने कहा, बड़ी चीज है।




masteries Teleconferences


IAC Board Members will be hosting two teleconferences with IAC
Certifiers to answer all your questions on the Masteries development
and implementation and to hear your feedback about everything related
to the Masteries and the IAC. Please join us on Thursday, July 19th,
9pm ET and Tuesday, July 24th, 1pm ET. The calls will last up to, but
no more than, one hour each.


कॉल में से एक में शामिल होने के लिए, कृपया के लिए एक ई-मेल भेजें:
certification@certifiedcoach.org
with "Masteries Teleconferences-July 19th" or "Masteries
Teleconferences-July 24th" in the subject line and we will send you the
telephone bridge number.




पाँच सबसे आम कोचिंग गलतियाँ


by Barbra
Sundquist, IAC-CC

हाल ही में
someone asked me, "What are the five most common mistakes people make
on their IAC certification tapes?" I thought about it for a moment, and
then counted off in no particular order:

  1. talking too
    बहुत

  2. rushing to
    समाधान

  3. accepting at
    face value

  4. वापस पकड़

  5. telling,
    rather than asking

इस
is my list. Other certifiers may have a slightly different list. But if
I could wave a magic wand, this is what I would love to hear:

  1. अधिक चुप्पी

  2. seek to
    explore, not to solve

  3. चुनौती
    मान्यताओं

  4. say what
    you're afraid to say

  5. ask, rather
    than tell

1। अधिक चुप्पी

चुप्पी
is a very powerful coaching skill. Nine times out of ten if you stay
silent your client will eventually say something thoughtful or
revelatory. They are using the silence to process their thoughts or
access their intuition. That takes time, so don't rush them. The other
benefit of allowing more silence is that you are less likely to
interrupt or talk over your client.

व्यायाम: एक बड़ा संकेत है कि "प्रतीक्षा" जिसके लिए खड़ा कहते हैं, "क्यों मैं बात कर रहे?"

2। पता लगाने के लिए है, न हल करने के लिए की तलाश

कूदते
in too soon with advice or solutions is the most common mistake of new
coaches. Most clients do not want your solution, at least not at first.
They want you to help them explore all facets of their issue. If you do
that, the 'solution' or next step will present itself naturally.

व्यायाम: जैसे ही खोजपूर्ण सवाल पूछ अभ्यास:

  • "How do you
    feel about it?"

  • "What have you
    tried already?"

  • "How did that
    work for you?"

3। चुनौती मान्यताओं

अंश
of a coach's role is to challenge client assumptions, excuses or
self-limiting beliefs. By doing that, we broaden their possibilities.
And isn't that what coaching is all about?

व्यायाम: के लिए सुनो और मान्यताओं को चुनौती। यहाँ कुछ उदाहरण हैं:


ग्राहकों का कहना है ...

आपका जवाब…
"मैं नहीं कर सकता ..." "क्यों नहीं?"
"Everyone
knows…"
"who's
everyone?"
"Of course x
is true"
"कौन कहता है?"
"मुझे पता है कि…" "Is that a
fact or an assumption?"

4। क्या आप कहने के लिए डर रहे हैं का कहना है कि

क्या
you call them inklings, intuition or "that little voice in your head",
they're there for a reason. Don't be afraid to share those thoughts
with your client. They often lead to breakthroughs.

I'll
give you a personal example. When I started coaching I was very strong
in some respects, but one thing I didn't do was challenge the status
quo with the client. I was a little too polite. As a result I wasn't
coaching to my full potential. And I wasn't giving my clients what they
deserve.

कि
changed the day I finally said what I was afraid to say. My client was
complaining that his wife was so negative. What immediately popped into
my head was "that's ironic, because आप कर रहे हैं सबसे नकारात्मक लोगों को मैं जानता में से एक "।

In
that moment I had to decide whether to keep coaching at the "nice chat"
level or to go deeper. I decided to take the plunge. Of course, I
didn't just blurt out what was in my head. That would have been hurtful.

इसके बजाय,
I said, "There's something that I'd like to share with you, but it
might be hard for you to hear. Do you feel up to hearing it today?"

.
he agreed, I said "It's interesting to hear you talk about your wife's
negativity. Because my experience of you is that you are quite often
negative, too."

We
ended up having the most productive coaching call ever. In fact, he had
a major breakthrough. From that point on, I was a changed coach.

व्यायाम:
Listen for that little voice in your head and be fearless in sharing it
with your client. Then notice how you feel about your effectiveness as
a coach.

5। पूछो, बता नहीं है

कोचिंग मुख्य रूप से पूछ रही है, नहीं कह रहा है के बारे में के बारे में है।


कहना

पूछें (बेहतर)
आप एक्स की जरूरत है। आप क्या करते हैं
think you need?
You're an
introvert.
आप एक
introvert?
You're
obviously feeling better.
क्या हाल है
feeling?

 Exercise:
Record and transcribe a short coaching session. Then rewrite,
converting "tell" statements into "ask" questions.


 
 

के बारे में
the author: Barbra Sundquist is an IAC Certifier and Certified Mentor
Coach who enjoys demystifying the whole certification process. To
pre-register for Barbra's brand new 11-CD IAC Masteries self-study
program, please go to www.BecomeACertifiedCoach.com  

 

 


मोड़
Life Around at the Last Possible Moment

B
y अनीता Moorjani

I have been a life coach since January 2002, coaching
people to live their best lives and motivating them to turn their lives around.
However, by far the greatest achievement of my own life has been in turning
my own life around when only death seemed imminent.

In February 2006, I had end-stage Hodgkin's Lymphoma.
The cancer had spread throughout my body, my organs were failing and I was
already in a semi-comatose state being kept barely alive with piped nutrition
and oxygen. The doctors had told my family that this was the end and that
I only had a few more hours to live.  What followed can only be described
as a miracle for which I will be eternally grateful. No one knows exactly
how to explain what caused my health to turn around in just a number of hours,
leading to a total recovery with no trace of cancer cells to be found in my
body and no permanent damage to organs. (The full story of my cancer and healing
can be read on my website at:
www.anitamoorjani.com).

Needless to say, this experience has caused me to
completely change how I view life and reality as well as how I live my own
life. It has, of course, also completely changed the way I conduct my coaching.

To read more about how Anita's
experiences have influenced her coaching,

यहां क्लिक करे
। (सिर्फ सदस्यों के लिए)






 
Anita Moorjani is a Life Coach based in Hong
Kong and can be
पर संपर्क किया anita@power1.org, or telephone (852) 2369 1234. 
Her business website is www.power1.org.

 

 




"कोचिंग मोमेंट्स" एक लेता है
विचारशील, और कभी-कभी प्रकाशस्तंभ, कैसे कोचिंग देखो
हमारे दैनिक जीवन में हस्तक्षेप किया जा सकता है।

जब आकाश खोलने
जेनिस हंटर द्वारा

मैं हमारी लकड़ी पर बैठा हूं
मेज, मेरे बाल तौलिया में लिपटे हुए। ड्राइविंग बारिश खिड़की के खिलाफ ढोल है
चादरों में, हमारी सड़क पर तेज़ दौड़ते हुए, जो आगे के लॉन में बदल गया है
एक दलदली पानी की सुविधा और धाराओं में फुटपाथ। मेरे सारे जीवन में, मैं
स्कॉटलैंड में इस तरह की बारिश कभी नहीं देखी, सर्दियों में भी नहीं।

दस मिनट पहले मैं खड़ा था
पानी को देखते हुए हमारे सामने के बरामदे के टेराकोटा पर उकेरे गए कदम
जमीन से छः इंच उछलकर हमारी कार की छत को पार्क कर दिया
कुछ फीट की दूरी पर ड्राइव में। जैसा कि मैं खड़ा था, ध्वनि से मंत्रमुग्ध, मेरे नंगे पैर
ऊपर से नाली के रूप में विभाजित होने के कारण ओवरफ्लो होने लगा, ओवरफ्लो हो गया
एक झरना और हमारा सामने का दरवाजा पीछे एक गुप्त आश्रय का अंधेरा प्रवेश द्वार बन गया
एक झरना। मेरा युवा बेटा मुझसे जुड़ गया, उसकी आँखें बड़ी और उद्यम करने के लिए तरस रही थी।
"फिर तुम जाओ।" मैंने कहा। "पहले अपनी टी शर्ट उतारो ...।"

वह विस्मय में मुझे घूरता रहा,
अपने फुटबॉल शॉर्ट्स के लिए नीचे छीन लिया, फिर छींटे कार के आसपास भाग गया
उस तालाब में जो कभी हमारे गैरेज के सामने ड्राइव था। वह टकटकी लगाए खड़ा रहा
नीचे की ओर गश खाकर गिर पड़ा, और दिखावा करते हुए अपनी बाहों को फड़फड़ाया
शावर में गाना मैंने लालसा से देखा।

मेरे पति उसे ले आए
गर्म तौलिया जब वह कंपकंपी में आ गया लेकिन मुस्कराते हुए, हमारे लकड़ी पर टपकता पूल
मंज़िल। "आप इसे कोशिश करना चाहिए मम !!!" तो मैंने किया।

मैं किचन से बाहर भागा
हमारे पीछे आँगन पर दरवाजा, मेरे चेहरे को आकाश तक उठाया, मेरी बाहों को उठाया, मुस्कुराया,
एक धीमी गति से सर्पिल निकला और त्वचा को भिगो दिया। घने हरे से घिरा हुआ
बरसाती झाड़ियों की तरह, मेरे चेहरे पर बाल, बारिश मेरे नीचे स्ट्रीमिंग
एक गर्म स्नान की तरह गाल, मेरी टी-शर्ट और जीन्स बढ़ते हुए, मैं खड़ा था
छींटाकशी में डूबा हुआ, मेरी टखनों के पिछले हिस्से में पानी भर जाना। एक प्रार्थना गुलाब वर्जित है
जैसा कि मैंने ऊपर की ओर देखा और बारिश का स्वाद चखा। बारिश-भीगने के भारी इत्र में साँस लेना
शाखाएँ, मिट्टी और हवा, मैंने खुद को जीवन से जुड़ा महसूस किया, ज़िंदा, भाग्यशाली, धन्य ...

एक गर्म स्नान, कुछ गर्म
तौलिए और कपड़े बदलने के बाद, मैं अपने लैपटॉप पर बैठा हूँ, सोच रहा हूँ, जैसे
मैं लिखता हूँ, उखड़ी हुई ज़मीनों पर जहाँ बारिश कभी नहीं होती और बाढ़ वाले खेतों में,
खेतों, गांवों - यहां तक ​​कि अमीर देशों में शहर की सड़कों - जहां जंगली हवाएं,
नदियों और ज्वार की लहरों ने जीवन को धो डाला है।

कुछ के लिए, बचपन का उपहार
अस्तित्व के लिए संघर्ष में आश्चर्य एक लक्जरी है।

जेनिस
हंटर एक लेखक, शिक्षक और IAC प्रमाणित कोच हैं
वर्तमान में होमलाइफ कोचिंग में माहिर हैं - लोगों की मदद करना
प्रामाणिक, आत्मा से भरे जीवन और घरों को वे प्यार करते हैं -
और उनकी प्रमाणन यात्रा में सहयोगी कोचों में।
वह अपने पति और दो बच्चों के साथ स्कॉटलैंड में रहती हैं।


संपर्क करें
Janice@LovingtheDetails.com




आईएसी प्रमाणित कोच


को बधाई
क्रिस्टी Arndt from Lombard, IL, United States who
recently passed her Step 2 Exam and became an
IAC Certified Coach.




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